I just sent out the following e-mail to members of my congregation in response to the recent incident in Knoxville:
Dear Friends:
I am sure that by now many of you have heard about the tragedy that struck the Tennessee Valley UU Congregation Sunday morning. In case you haven’t heard the news, there was a shooting by by a man unknown to the congregation during the community’s youth’s their summer musical. Six people were sent to the hospital with gunshot wounds, and a seventh with an ankle injury sustained while trying to get away. At least two people have died as a result of their wounds. One was a member of the nearby Westside Unitarian Universalist Fellowship. Unconfirmed stories say that one of the victims intentionally stepped in front of the gunman to protect others. Another woman stood ready to block the entry to their quiet room so that the gunman would not be able to get to parents with small children.
This incident is both saddening and disquieting. If there is one place in our society that should be free from violence it is the sanctuary of a religious community. As I write this staff from the Unitarian Universalist Association, including UUA President Bill Sinkford, are on site with members of the UU Trauma Response Ministry responding to the incident and doing their best to provide support and resources to the congregations and their members. Already other religious communities are stepping up to offer assistance, and a nearby UU congregation held a vigil this afternoon.
News of this incident will most likely be on news programs, and your children may hear about it. Because this happened in a UU congregation, they may wonder if they will be safe at the Society. This kind of anxiety is common, and open and honest communication is always the best. The UU Trauma Response Ministry web-site has some resources on responding to children in these situations (http://www.traumaministry.org/resources.htm). You might also want to have your children draw pictures or make cards to send to the children of TVUUC and Westside–knowing that others are thinking of them is important at this time.
I will send another email out later this week as we know more about this tragedy, and as the needs of the congregations become more clear. The impulse to respond is deep in us all, but I urge you NOT to do a couple of things: do NOT call the congregations; do NOT email the congregations. These well-meaning responses can often mean that the congregations are diverted to handling increased calls and emails from doing what they need at this time. If feel you that you would like to send the congregation a message you may post one on a web-site that the UUA has set-up to gather support http://knoxvillesupport.blogspot.com/ There will also be cards to send to members of both congregations at the service on Sunday. If any donation funds are created, I will let you know.
Thank you, friends, for the prayers and best wishes I know are sending out to our co-religionists in Knoxville. Please feel free to contact me if you would like to discuss this with
me. At a time like this I always available to you, even though I may be in Boston.
love,
Colin